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We’re here to help adolescent gay and same sex attracted men (under 26) take control of their health.
We provide information on relevant health issues, and we offer a range of specific and general services delivered by loving people who genuinely know the health issues affecting young gay and matching sex attracted men.
Our Labor With Young Gay Men
We run a range of FREE peer-led events, workshops and projects for queer and same-sex attracted guys aged 18-26.
Through our function, we provide a place where young guys can meet each other and make new friends in a safe, social environment. Here they can divide ideas with their peers and learn more about identity, coming out, sex and sexual health, sound relationships and more.
Young male lover men have lower rates of HIV and sexual health testing than older members of the people. Of course, this makes sense. Only after people overcome the initial barriers to testing for the first time are they able to commit to a regular testing pattern. We help young guys to share their experiences around testing and know why regular testing is important for all sexually active gay men.
We function in both a face-to-face capacity as well as online
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At Bespoke Surgical, we think about sex in completely different ways and by bringing science into sex, a new era of understanding will permit improvement for everyone. Regardless of which gay anal sex positions you scout, it’s important to understand their differences:
- Affect the top and the bottom in different ways
- Bring out both submissive or aggressive characteristics of each person
- Require an understanding of both everyone’s positioning (height, penis curvature, and pelvic angle)
Little nuances and adjustments can make all the difference in terms of pleasure vs. pain, as does open and decent communication. It’s key
Sexual health for gay and pansexual men
Having unprotected penetrative sex is the most likely way to proceed on a sexually transmitted infection (STI).
Using a condom helps protect against HIV and lowers the chance of getting many other STIs.
If you’re a man having sex with men (MSM), without condoms and with someone new, you should have an STI and HIV assess every 3 months, otherwise, it should be at least once a year. This can be done at a sexual health clinic (SHC) or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. This is significant, as some STIs do not produce any symptoms.
Hepatitis A
Hepatitis A is a liver infection that's spread by a virus in poo.
Hepatitis A is uncommon in the UK but you can acquire it through sex, including oral-anal sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex. MSM with multiple partners are particularly at risk. You can also get it through contaminated nourishment and drink.
Symptoms of hepatitis A can manifest up to 8 weeks after sex and include tiredness and feeling sick (nausea).
Hepatitis A is not usually life-threatening and most people make a packed recovery within a couple of months.
MSM can avoid getting hepatitis A by:
- washing hands after se
Men who have sex with men (MSM)
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Can gay men give blood?
Gay and bisexual men are not automatically prevented from giving blood.
Men who have sex with men and who have had the same partner for 3 months or more and meet our other eligibility criteria are capable to give blood.
Anyone who has had anal sex with a new partner or multiple partners in the last three months, regardless of their gender or their partner’s gender, must delay 3 months before donating.
We evaluate your eligibility to give blood based solely on your have individual experiences, making the process fairer for everyone.
If you are taking pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) or post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) you will be unable to give blood. If you stop taking PrEP or PEP, you will desire to wait 3 months before you can give blood.
We be grateful that any deferral is disappointing if you want to store lives by giving blood.
If you have previously been unable to give blood because of the guidelines and would like to donate, please call us on 0300 123 23 23. One of our team can review the new guidelines with you and, if eligible, book your next appointment.
Why is there a 3-month wait after sex?
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