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I’m a gay guy in his forties. I very much love my husband but two years ago we known that our want for each other sexually just wasn’t there anymore. Thanks in part to reading your column for many years, we were qualified to have a calm conversation about whether we wanted to remain together in a companionate marriage or split up. We decided to stay together and I’m happy we did. Sex was the thing we fought about most, and our relationship improved when we took that conflict off the table. My husband has a couple of fuckbuddies that he sees while I do most of my playing online. (We had this conversation at the start of the pandemic and playing online feels safer.)

One of things I’ve able to explore in the last year is FinDom. I really get off on sending money that we can spare to younger, hotter guys and organism degraded for my pains. Thing is, almost all the guys doing FinDom are straight. It’s often a part of their persona they play up: They’re hot vertical guys demanding cash tributes from “pathetic fags” that they would never stroke in real being. As much as I like having my wallet drained by a steaming young straight guy calling me a fag, I would so much rather give my funds

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We assume that these men are gay, or at the very least attracted to both genders, and simply in denial about their sexuality. However, we now know that one subset of these men—straight men who appreciate getting paid for such sex—can, indeed, be heterosexual. It is not the sex that turns them on, it is the money! They have eroticized money, and the sense of value they derive from being admired and paid for performing sex acts with men.

I even had one client come into my office and refer to himself as a “cashsexual.” Having cash put into his hand or his PayPal account or Google Wallet, as well as the exhibitionism and accolades he received, turned him on.

In fact, increasingly in gay porn researchers have found straight men who enjoy participating in it. Often, they’re able to identical higher pay for performing because many gay guys are turned on by seeing men direct having gay sex—and gay men are quick to spot them. Then, when the scene is done, the straight man goes home to his wife or girlfriend, and once again immerses himself in the world of heterosexuality.

Of course, this eroticization of money is not limited to straight men

Gay for Pay: Confessions from a Unbent Guy

December 19, 2020
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